Monday, November 21, 2016

Please stop bending over backwards for people who simply don't care about you. No matter how hard you try, to no avail. They are never satisfied. Constantly complaining, making one's life miserable. The more you do for them,the more they want. You may love them. Just love yourself first. LOVE yourself more!

Sunday, July 24, 2016


As a spiritual consultant, I answer your questions and open the doors to your future. I provide clarity and insight into situations that make their way into a persons life. I am passionate about my work and take it seriously. I want all of my clients to achieve happiness and have success in all aspects of their lives. I do tarot card reading and also prepare my own products such as candles, incense, oils, liquid baths, bath salts and herbal baths for spiritual cleansings. Interested parties can contact me via email: for additional information.

Thursday, July 21, 2016


Many of us are dealing with situations that are downright difficult. There seems no way out. Our hearts - heavy. We cry. We pray. We ask for help and none is given. We begin to question our self worth, our capabilities and ask ourselves what are we supposed to do?! DON'T GIVE UP! When faced with a difficult situation, TRY not to give up. This task is not easy for it's far easier to simply give up. I know that we all get tired of our situations and we are waiting for things to improve. Again, don't give up. Focus. Evaluate your current situation, make little changes. Try to focus a bit more on the positive aspect instead of the negative. Picture what you want to have and achieve and instead of what you don't have. If you are dealing with a pain in the ass boss, co-worker, loved one etc. Flip the script. Pass out compliments. Give them a hello, a good morning, you look nice. Sometimes little things - little changes are all that is needed. Push through it. Don't give up. We all owe it to ourselves to obtain our greater good. Peace and blessings darlings!!

Thursday, May 12, 2016

Heartache II

I wish that peoples heartache and pain could go away quickly.  Unfortunate it does not.  For some the heartache and pain never seems to go away, especially if it concerns the death of a loved one.  However, when it pertains to relationships, although hard, I believe that we owe it to ourselves to be happy.  One needs to be involved in a loving relationship.  Is that easy to obtain?  Of course not.  If that was the case, we would all be happy and in love.  That being said, we cannot continuously mourn the death of a relationship.  We need to heal.  One day at a time.  We must move on.  How do we know what happiness awaits us if we keep ourselves stuck.  We owe it to ourselves to be happy.  We need to love ourselves. Heal.  Meditate.  Light prayer.  Allow the happiness, that love that we so want and desire, (but with someone who will love and appreciate us) to manifest.  We need to love ourselves first.  We should be our first love.  Over time, we all will heal.  Some more quickly than others.  Wishing everyone a happy heart!

Friday, February 26, 2016

Saint Rita

[Saint Rita is considered to be the saint of difficult or impossible situations]
Saint Rita was born to her parents late in their lives that her own birth seemed to be the first miracle of her life.  They brought her up in a spirit of holy gratitude and, by the time she was twelve her love for Jesus was so great that she wanted to become a nun.  Her parents were aging and were worried about their daughter being left alone in the world, so they arranged a marriage for her.  She became the wife of a violent and abusive man.  It was her love for her husband and her prayers that brought him to love God.  This was considered an impossible case.  Later when her husband died, her two sons wanted to avenge their fathers death.  She prayed to God and her prayers were answered.  This was considered another impossible case.
Saint Rita is the patroness of impossible causes and circumstances that are deemed hopeless because of her difficult life. Through her various trials God used her in remarkable ways.  Even now from heaven she assists those who call upon her for intercession for their own seemingly impossible and hopeless conditions.  Her feast day is May 22nd.
O powerful St. Rita, rightly called Saint of the Impossible, I come to you with confidence in my great need. You know well my trials, for you yourself were many times burdened in this life. Come to my help, speak for me, pray with me, intercede on my behalf before the Father. I know that God has a most generous heart and that he is a most loving Father. Join your prayers to mine and obtain for me the grace I desire (here mention your request). You who were so very pleasing to God on earth and are so much so now in heaven, I promise to use this favor, when granted, to better my life, to proclaim God's mercy, and to make you more widely known and loved. Amen.

Thursday, February 25, 2016


Listed below are psalms for protection.
Psalm 53
[1] The fool hath said in his heart, There is no God. Corrupt are they, and have done abominable iniquity: there is none that doeth good.
[2] God looked down from heaven upon the children of men, to see if there were any that did understand, that did seek God.
[3] Every one of them is gone back: they are altogether become filthy; there is none that doeth good, no, not one.
[4] Have the workers of iniquity no knowledge? who eat up my people as they eat bread: they have not called upon God.
[5] There were they in great fear, where no fear was: for God hath scattered the bones of him that encampeth against thee: thou hast put them to shame, because God hath despised them.
[6] Oh that the salvation of Israel were come out of Zion! When God bringeth back the captivity of his people, Jacob shall rejoice, and Israel shall be glad.
Psalm 54
[1] Save me, O God, by thy name, and judge me by thy strength.
[2] Hear my prayer, O God; give ear to the words of my mouth.
[3] For strangers are risen up against me, and oppressors seek after my soul: they have not set God before them. Selah.
[4] Behold, God is mine helper: the Lord is with them that uphold my soul.
[5] He shall reward evil unto mine enemies: cut them off in thy truth.
[6] I will freely sacrifice unto thee: I will praise thy name, O LORD; for it is good.
[7] For he hath delivered me out of all trouble: and mine eye hath seen his desire upon mine enemies.
Psalms 101
[1] I will sing of mercy and judgment: unto thee, O LORD, will I sing.
[2] I will behave myself wisely in a perfect way. O when wilt thou come unto me? I will walk within my house with a perfect heart.
[3] I will set no wicked thing before mine eyes: I hate the work of them that turn aside; it shall not cleave to me.
[4] A froward heart shall depart from me: I will not know a wicked person.
[5] Whoso privily slandereth his neighbour, him will I cut off: him that hath an high look and a proud heart will not I suffer.
[6] Mine eyes shall be upon the faithful of the land, that they may dwell with me: he that walketh in a perfect way, he shall serve me.
[7] He that worketh deceit shall not dwell within my house: he that telleth lies shall not tarry in my sight.
[8] I will early destroy all the wicked of the land; that I may cut off all wicked doers from the city of the LORD.

Saturday, January 30, 2016


Broken Heart 3 
Heartache and pain is never easy.  I honestly feel that we need to love ourselves first. Your true love should be YOU.   We as individuals want to be involved in healthy relationships with someone who will love and respect  us just as much as we do. 
When a person truly loves you, they will not do anything that will tear you down, devastate or destroy you.  They may do things that may irritate you, might even hurt your feelings,  but nothing that will make you feel that your heart has been ripped out and can no longer exist in this world.  Trust and believe when your "loved" one knows that they have indeed hurt you, they will tirelessly do whatever they can to make it up to you.

However, one should not continue to hold on to their hurt.  Whether it's in the past or current.  
One must learn to let go of the hurt.  Let go of the damaged relationship. LET IT GO!  Is it easy?  Of course not!   FORGIVE yourself.   Release It.  Begin to heal.  Holding on to the hurt keeps one in a stagnate state.  This blocks good things from manifesting into ones life.
We all deserve happiness.

Monday, January 18, 2016


Forgiveness.  For most of us, this is something that is very difficult to do.  Of course it may seem easy, you simply open your mouth and utter the words, "I forgive you", but do you truly mean it?  I mean, can you honestly say that you forgive this person?  Can you forgive your spouse for cheating?  Can you forgive your friend from stealing from you? People always tell you that in order for you to move on with your life, you should forgive the person who has wronged you. 

On numerous occasions I have heard people state that in order for you to move forward that it is in your best interest to forgive the individual that has betrayed you, who has wronged you or caused your life to be a living hell.  I don't know about that.  And to that I say why?  Why should you forgive those whom have hurt you so deeply that it actually feels as though a knife was stabbed through your heart?  For some,  it's hard to forgive.  Let's face it, there are some individuals that you honestly forgive and they treat your act of forgiveness like a joke.  They repeat the offense over and over again.  Really, how much can a person constantly forgive another.  However, for those of you who can honestly and truly forgive someone, I say kudos to you.  For that is truly a blessing.  The ability to absolutely forgive someone and actually mean it.  

For the most part, I don't believe in forgiveness.  Of course this depends on the circumstance.  If someone bumps into me, of course I will forgive them.  Like most, it's the big issues that I have trouble with forgiveness.  That's why I don't say it.  I know many will proclaim that the Lord will want you to forgive.  That you should not keep your anger bottled up until it consumes you.  I agree with that. However, I am sure that the Lord doesn't want me to look the person in the eye and utter the lie of forgiveness.  He would want me to be truthful.  He wants us to be truthful.  So why should we say we forgive someone when we really don't mean it.

I have been listening in on various conversations and hear people give the advice to forgive.  Forgive that person so the issue will no longer consume you, they say.  Forgive that person and you will feel better.  Says who?  It's true that sometimes you become so angry at the person who has wronged you  or caused you distress that you actually do become bitter, stuck and you cannot progress and move forward.  This is something that we don't want.  We all deserve some form of happiness in our lives.  That's why I advise people to let go and move on.  RELEASE IT.  This of course takes time.  It doesn't happen overnight.

I wholeheartedly don't advise or believe in telling someone to utter the words of forgiveness UNLESS they can boast that they mean it.  Forgiving a person doesn't release you from the situation.  You have to release yourself from it.  I do believe that we should forgive ourselves.  We should and must find away to let go and release the anger or hurt that the individual has caused us.  By merely telling someone that you forgive them does not release your anger, your heart, your feeling.  Just because an individual has caused you much pain (example, a spouse), doesn't mean that you don't love them.  Nor does it mean you have to forgive them right away, if ever.  However, you need to get to a place in your life where you can accept what has happened and move forward.  With that being said, we should not allow or continue to allow people to walk over us and assume that we will constantly forgive them.

We, as an individual have to take it basically one day at a time.  Focus, pray, and meditate.  Release and let go of the situation and move forward.  You owe it to yourself to move forward and progress.


I tems Needed Green candle (preferably a jar candle) Piece of paper Peen or pencil A match or lighter Purchase a green candle. ...