Heartache and pain is never easy. I honestly feel that we need to love ourselves first. Your true love should be YOU. We as individuals want to be involved in healthy relationships with someone who will love and respect us just as much as we do.
When a person truly loves you, they will not do anything that will tear you down, devastate or destroy you. They may do things that may irritate you, might even hurt your feelings, but nothing that will make you feel that your heart has been ripped out and can no longer exist in this world. Trust and believe when your "loved" one knows that they have indeed hurt you, they will tirelessly do whatever they can to make it up to you.
However, one should not continue to hold on to their hurt. Whether it's in the past or current. One must learn to let go of the hurt. Let go of the damaged relationship. LET IT GO! Is it easy? Of course not! FORGIVE yourself. Release It. Begin to heal. Holding on to the hurt keeps one in a stagnate state. This blocks good things from manifesting into ones life.
However, one should not continue to hold on to their hurt. Whether it's in the past or current. One must learn to let go of the hurt. Let go of the damaged relationship. LET IT GO! Is it easy? Of course not! FORGIVE yourself. Release It. Begin to heal. Holding on to the hurt keeps one in a stagnate state. This blocks good things from manifesting into ones life.
We all deserve happiness.
Amen! Thank you Amazing Creations. I needed this at this very moment. :)
ReplyDeleteThank you. I am glad it helped.
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